Friday, 13 February 2015

ZINC ENGAGEMENT RING????


If the love of your life proposes to you with a ring that costs about TEN THOUSAND NAIRA,(or less) would you wear it?

Here's a scenario,
John and Jane have been dating for a few years. John is  a successful car dealer.
He takes care of Jane best he can but, he really doesn't see the need for an expensive engagement ring.
It's all about cost for John. He has calculated how much he would spend on wedding rings,venue, drinks, honey moon bla bla bla.

So he doesn't see the need to spend so much on an engagement ring.
His budget is TEN THOUSAND NAIRA.GBAM!!!!

John loves and adores Jane...everyone knows.He's never cheated, lied or hit her ever.And the Sex,according to Jane;"...dey scatta my dada"

Anyway, John finally proposes to Jane at her favorite restaurant in Port Harcourt.
This is what happens;

John goes down on one knee and pops out the ring.At first Jane is pleasantly surprised, then she stares at the ring a little more closely.
As a former Gold-Dealer, she knows real gold from a mile away.
What John has in his hand isn't any where closely related to gold or silver.

WELL-POLISHED ZINC would've described it better.



Jane considers her options as John  kneels down waiting for her answer:

1.politely smile and tell him to stand up,

2.whisper a silent "Guy, you dey fall ma hand" in his ear and then leave,

3.Ignore the cheap zinc of a ring and say yes to the love of her life(in front of all these 'bad belle PH people')
OR

4.make a scene, cry and tell him "NO"(Which kine nonsense b dat?)AND then LEAVE.


In that instant, she decides not to embarrass him, and goes with option 3.

Of course every one at the restaurant(bad belle people included) applauds the newly engaged couple.

About an hour later they are in the car on their way home.

Jane is silent.
Since the Restaurant, John realizes she has barely even glanced at the ring.

"Is everything okay?"John asks.
Jane turns and gives him a very polite smile.
"Yes, it is"

More silence. It was nighttime and they were driving through New GRA.

John is clearly uncomfortable.

"You don't like the ring?" He asks finally.
Jane makes a small scoffing sound
"Please, ask me a serious question"Her tone is rude.

"What is it again,have I done something wrong?" John asks in confusion.

"I really don't want to talk about it" Jane says, with a casual wave of her hand.

"No!" John says, getting a little worked up.
"We must talk about it oh?"John says as if mentally preparing for a "quarrel"

After another long silence,

"Na God go punish you!!!!!"She says calmly

John's Eyes POP open.

"So,  wit all De money wey you get,Na dis Rubber Band you wan take marry me??"Jane's anger is unmistakable as her voice gets louder.

John's face is so SHOCKED , its almost comical.

"...Jane!!You're calling my ring rubber band????"John says, clearly hurt by her.
"Jane,...do you know how much  I bought ......?????
But she cuts him off,

"HOW MUCH??????" Now she's screaming into his face.
"......HOW MUCH WEY YOU BUY DIS ...DIS ZINC????" shoves him violently
John is evidently a combination of Hurt and Angry.
''....Jane,...don't push me again...I'm driving" but the threatening note in his voice is totally ignored by the FURIOUS JANE.

".....EH?...HOW MUCH WEY YOU BUY DIS.......TALISMAN  U WAN TAKE EMBARRASS ME FOR  PH  ....EH...HOW MUCH ...E REACH 5K???????

''FOR YOUR INFORMATION,....!!!!" John retorts.Clearly enraged himself.
".....I BOUGHT IT N7.500, DO YOU KNOW HOW........??????

But his preceding words never make it out because Jane LAUNCHES at him with such  violence, he almost looses control of the car,....AND nearly SKIDS off the road.
"BASTARD!!! FOOL!!! GOD GO PUNISH YOU!!!!!"" She screams as she attacks with her hands, nails....and teeth.
Jane is in PURE WHITE RAGE.

John manages to stop the car on the side of the road.The assault on John continues for another 40 seconds.
 After a few more blows,scratches and bites,...............
 Jane CALMS DOWN!!!

For a long time they just sit in the car trying to catch their breaths.Though she seems calmer, the anger is still very glaring in her eyes.
They remain that way for about another 15 minutes.

Then John starts the car and drives her home.
Not one word passes between them.
When the get to her gate, Jane  FLINGS the ring at John and leaves the car without saying a word

LADIES, WHAT WOULD YOU HAVE DONE IF YOU WERE IN JANE'S SHOES?
GUYS DO YOU THINK JOHN SHOULD;
A. Buy her a better ring,
B.Insist on that same ring
OR
C. cancel the engagement



LIFE IS A CHOICE MY FRIEND
SO CHOOSE WISELY
ENOUGH SAID











30 comments:

  1. I must say, her reaction was a bit extreme. But He should just buy her a better ring. It's not as if he can't afford it. If that's what will make her happy, why not? Some men sef.

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  2. I must say, her reaction was a bit extreme. But He should just buy her a better ring. It's not as if he can't afford it. If that's what will make her happy, why not? Some men sef.

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  3. The guy is damn stingy..tufiakwa!!!
    Thank God for my man oooo....he dey try abeg.
    I hate stingy men with passion...Thank God for chasing all the stingy mean away andd bringing "generous" le boo

    Am a giver, so I prayed for a giver and God heard me...Halleluyah.

    John shld buy her a beta ring joor...
    Ladies have different love languages...

    I love gifts...quality ones...
    Am sure Jane expected beta...
    Gold or diamond for an engagement ring won't kill John...
    Na wa..am so angry

    If u can't get a gud engagement ring for me? Hw den can u afford wedding rings???...
    Tufiakwa once again.

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  4. The guy is damn stingy..tufiakwa!!!
    Thank God for my man oooo....he dey try abeg.
    I hate stingy men with passion...Thank God for chasing all the stingy mean away andd bringing "generous" le boo

    Am a giver, so I prayed for a giver and God heard me...Halleluyah.

    John shld buy her a beta ring joor...
    Ladies have different love languages...

    I love gifts...quality ones...
    Am sure Jane expected beta...
    Gold or diamond for an engagement ring won't kill John...
    Na wa..am so angry

    If u can't get a gud engagement ring for me? Hw den can u afford wedding rings???...
    Tufiakwa once again.

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  5. but d guy can afford it though jane was too extreme

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    1. He takes care of her 'every' need and she reacts like that? He should cancel the engagement. She acted like a mad woman. She can use 'bottom power' to get a better ring.

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    2. He takes care of her 'every' need and she reacts like that? He should cancel the engagement. She acted like a mad woman. She can use 'bottom power' to get a better ring.

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  6. but d guy can afford it though jane was too extreme

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  7. The girls reaction is silly, very childish. Whatever happened to calmly expressing your thoughts towards the engagement ring. Its an engagement ring doesn't have to be so expensive. But John should have known if his woman is the type that likes a flashy engagement ring or just normal. Anyways every mallam with him kettle.

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  8. I so hate stingy men. sheesh. being d sort of person i am, a stingy man wld be lyk a life in jail sentence.. its one tin to not be able to afford sometin beta, n quite anoda to be downright cheap n stingy

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  9. I still don't understand why an engagement has to be with all the drama of kneeling down and giving a ring. I just don't get it. If you both agree to date and decide to get married when the guy comes to do introduction and make his intentions known to your parents as far as I'm concerned that's the engagement.
    its not by force to buy ring and kneel down.

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    1. God bless you for this comment. I was wondering the same thing too. I dont understand the deal with all the drama oof kneeling down. Mstcheew. Asa kasa.

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  10. D guy shouldnt get back together with her. He should just know he dodged a bullet. If ur guy has money to get u another ring and ge's just being stingy. U shld b able to get sth better frm him
    without d drama. Unless u dnt knw what ure doing in dat rltshp. Dey all hv mumu buttons. Find it and press it.

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  11. Humm mum all this babes and there comments, the guy can afford to buy her expensive ring, he was counting cost remember this days gals want double band wedding ring, twin set.
    so let's assume he knee he was still goin to buy couple band of 3, he choose to purchase a temporary ring.
    wats the big deal?
    The lady Jane I think is not a wise woman, if she has being with the guy long enuff to know he can be her husband , why fight over a ring , u can be married with a all kinds of things representing a wedding band , if she want she could tell her husband to change her wedding band when the wedding drama is over.
    ladies wise up there several ways to get a sthingy man to be a giver.

    If the guy wants he should just call it off COz it won't be a happy home without him having money.

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  12. John buy her a better ring jor if you have the money, stop doing ijebu, they wouldn't bury you with the money...
    If am Jane I wouldn't throw such tantrums, I no get power, I would say yes in front of bad belle's and ask him sweetly to get me another if he still refuses,i would leave him in peace and if my friend ask me why we broke up, I tell them we just found out he is AS or has been transfused with ijebu blood which my blood can't accept...lol

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  13. Lol, he shld just buy her a better ring, he shld know dat women show off deir engagement ring more dan deir wedding ring sef... He shld hv gotten a better ring, and her reaction was bad doe
    Ist time here

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  14. lol! John John! Haba! he can afford a good ring now, why give his heart throb a talisman.hehehe. In Jane's defense, at least she did not embarrass him in public, not that i'm saying twas cool for her to react like that but most women's love language like Chysugar mentioned is receiving gifts, haba a cheap ring to engage someone he's so dedicated to? no nau, not good enough

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  15. Lol...her rxtion was too extreme ...Sshe shld have talked it out wit him..or after dat day "conveniently" forget to wear it....no be person go tell john say she no like am...stingy ass men.....what is worth doing is worth doing well joor...ah ah hw is she goin to flaunt it and shove it in her friends' faces when she's ashamed of it......but hoi.."Zinc"...."Talisman"...u get bad mouth

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  16. There was no need for all dat drama. Wats d big deal? Engagement ring wen she go soon change sef. I have changed my engagement ring more dan 5 times since i got married 8 years ago

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  17. He shud get her a better one biko. He has d money.

    Pamscrib.blogspot.com

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  18. Engagement ring is temporal. She is not a wise woman. If John really put all those stuffs listed into account den she missed out. She reacted in a very bad way. I dont support ha at all. I think John shud dodge dis bullet.

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  19. So.if she no come get any nko? My hubby then did not propose, we just sort of drifted into getting married. And, there was no ring sef! I bought my own rings. Though he bought me a set of really gorgeous rings 10 yes later. But the funny thing is this guy is a giver. I never lacked in my marriage. If I had flared up like aunty, I for miss!

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    1. Why are you talking in past tense? Is it that you're no longer married or what?

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  20. This is definitely a tricky situation. Read the comments above and don't know how folks wear their rings, most ladies I know wear their engagement ring plus the wedding band everyday...So saying the engagement ring is temporary is a bit confusing...The least John could've done was pay a attention to his girl, if you know say your lady no dey wear zinc on a good day, why buy her a zinc engagement ring...Go big or go home...

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  21. The Guy should have gotten his girl a better ring, I am assuming he already knows that hia wife has a taste for finer things judging from the story, the narrator wrote she once dealed in gold, someone that was once a Gold dealer definitely won't be using fake jewellery herself. But then The Lady's reaction was overboard and uncalled for, Expressing yourself in a calm way would have done the trick.

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  22. Opus, why do you always depict these PH ladies as crazy? Just an innocent question, nevertheless I dont think I would make a fuss over it. worst case, the next day, ill drag le boo to a jewellery shop and buy another ring. EOD.

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  23. Jane over reacted I must say, but since john can afford a better ring, he should go ahead and get her a better ring...it doesn't have to be outrageously expensive.

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  24. I will take the ring is it everybody that get popose to. God bring the man that will love me for meoooo, whether he popose With rubber band or gold. aslong he treat me Nice and their is love.Thank God i dont put on jewelries.

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