Saturday, 21 February 2015

WHY CAN'T WE DISCUSS MARRIAGE ON A FIRST DATE?????



I just want to get married. I'm tired of all these Nigerian "MAN-CHELORS" who don't want  to get married?
I mean, when will they grow up and start acting like Men? All they have are excuses(like I don't have enough already)

"I haven't made enough money.......We're still getting to know each other"blah blah blah!!
I'm sick of it!!
Imagine that foolish Abdul.Telling me we should get to know each other better.
Nonsense!

On our first date I asked him if he wanted to get married, the idiot stared at me in shock and said;
"Haba!! We've barely known each other for up to 72 hours"
Can you Imagine the rubbish???
How long are you supposed to know someone before you can marry them?

"Dem Dey know Person finish?" Why are Nigerian men such cowards?

A real man should be able to tell when he sees his wife.After all, isn't that how Uncle Abiye  got married? When he met Aunty  Chinyere he said he knew she was the one from day ONE.
He proposed to her almost a week later. That's a real man!!!!


How can Abdul say I am wrong to discuss marriage on the first date?Please,....... there's nothing there ABEG.
If a man is serious about you he will tell you from the first date.I need a man that can do that.I need a man that will look at me at first sight and say;"You are my wife!!!"

I'm tired of all these Immature-Stingy-Unromantic-Sex-Addicts in Nigeria.
My best-friend Joan thinks  I'm crazy. She thinks its wrong to demand for marriage the way I do (especially on a first date).

"Eno, haven't you scared off enough men?"  Joan asked her while they were shopping last Thursday.

'Let them run na"  I  told her "A real man would stay!!"

To be honest, I don't see any wrong in what I do.Yes I know I've ended a lot of relationships  ABRUPTLY but its better than deceiving myself.

I know what I want.
I want to get married.Any man that can't discuss marriage with me within the first three days of meeting me is wasting my time.Period!!!

I mean like what are we waiting for? Do we have to date for half a millennium before you propose?

Okay then  if its inappropriate to discuss marriage on a first date, then WHEN can  we discuss it?

Men keep making up excuses to keep us in their beds when they want.They use us as prostitutes and maids but God forbid we should ask if they'll marry us.LIE LIE!!!!
When we do that we are called "Old, Desperate,.....pathetic".

I am simply tired of being the victim. I've been in a 5 year relationship that ended because he found a younger girl to marry

What did I get for."....... being Patient or ...reasonable?"  Excuses excuses excuses!


What's wrong with all these men? How long should I wait for you to make money? or get to know me?

I just don't want to be lonely any more. I don't want to be afraid anymore.
Are there no men out there  who want to settle down?

I know a lot of people think I'm desperate for marriage......crazy even but I'm I wrong just because I want to be married ?


I will keep on discussing marriage with men on the  first date.Any man that can't deal with that should go.


Life Is A choice my friend
So Choose Wisely
Enough Said


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25 comments:

  1. JSBunny21 February 2015 at 16:39

    Funny enough, my hubby said I was his wife from day one, just from hearing my voice alone o. I think the writer is right, in some ways. Men should be able to know to some extent, if a lady is the one. But aunty, cool down small.

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  2. Unknown21 February 2015 at 17:54

    Depends on the man, some advanced men after talking with you will state their purpose is marriage. For à young man its rather unrealistic, if the man brings it up fine. But for a lady who's biological alarm has gone off and has been put on snooze several times, its okay to bring up the M word early.

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  3. Unknown21 February 2015 at 19:13

    My husband said the 1st day he saw me he knew I was his wife....and the next time we met he asked me to marry me. 2day we are happily married. Most matured guys know what dey want alrdy when dey c a woman, so they just go straight 2d point.

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  4. Bella21 February 2015 at 21:12

    eno maybe u shud stop dating boys and start dating men

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    1. mzmaris26 February 2015 at 00:25

      If they r comfortable enough discussing sex and my past r/ship on a first date, they shld be comfy enough discussing marriage and my future r/ship...and themselves as potential candidates.....abegee..am even tired of d dating thing joor.....if at all it should happen nw , it shld be with someone who wants me as a wife...if u want to test d waters, I can give u directions to river niger, if u can't handle that, ikpoba river is not that far

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  6. Unknown21 February 2015 at 22:39

    Some will still talk marriage and put that handcuff called engagement ring on a lady for yrs.. me I'm tired of my 5yrs relationship o,he told me from d start "you are my wife" but Look at us today still on d matter, still telling me he hasn't gotten enough money yet. Mehn if I say I never tire I dey lie.....

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    1. Maya Greg23 February 2015 at 14:55

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    2. Unknown27 February 2015 at 03:24

      God will answer your prayers soon.
      However...dont you think .its getting to long!!!
      5 YEARS?
      Hmmmm

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  7. Unknown21 February 2015 at 22:40

    Some will still talk marriage and put that handcuff called engagement ring on a lady for yrs.. me I'm tired of my 5yrs relationship o,he told me from d start "you are my wife" but Look at us today still on d matter, still telling me he hasn't gotten enough money yet. Mehn if I say I never tire I dey lie.....

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  8. Anonymous22 February 2015 at 14:16

    I dated my hubby for 2 years after which i proposed and he accepted. Today we r happily married with 2 kids n he loves n respects me . sometimes i tink a lady should step foward. Some guys are just ok with d bf/gf tingy n it goes on for years,thereby wasting d girl's time.

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  9. Maya Greg23 February 2015 at 14:53

    Eno please keep asking , Mr wright wouldn't walk

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  10. Unknown23 February 2015 at 22:02

    Lol, it's funny how I got here bUT on the first date, my husband said he wanted to get married and if I wasn't interested, I should please let him know. We got married 8 months later.

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  11. Unknown23 February 2015 at 22:02

    Lol, it's funny how I got here bUT on the first date, my husband said he wanted to get married and if I wasn't interested, I should please let him know. We got married 8 months later.

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  12. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 07:33

    My sweetie said he wants to get married to me that was June last year he said its till 4 years time when m thru with my part time course. Am now gv him ultimatum of next year note he is 40 no b my destiny go tie down

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  13. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 15:27

    "Immature-Stingy-Unromantic-Sex-addicts" *rotflmao

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  14. Unknown26 February 2015 at 12:59

    talking about marriage is not a bad idea. that is if in a relationship..and not on the first date,it is one of the highest level of immaturity on the side of a woman.. there are better ways to talk about marriage especially when you are in a relationship with someone you are proud of. Not just anyone

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  15. Unknown26 February 2015 at 13:00

    talking about marriage is not a bad idea. that is if in a relationship..and not on the first date,it is one of the highest level of immaturity on the side of a woman.. there are better ways to talk about marriage especially when you are in a relationship with someone you are proud of. Not just anyone

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  16. Unknown27 February 2015 at 21:41

    Love ur blog.

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  17. Unknown4 March 2015 at 11:14

    Nice one

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  18. Cheezy11 June 2015 at 14:00

    I believe a real man would appreciate any lady who knows what she wants and goes for it....#enoughsaid

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