People will call me "A two faced bastard"but what I am is a man. A "today's man".I love my wife.She's the most amazing woman I've ever known.She's intelligent,Kind,supportive,and faithful.
What more could a man ask for?She's just perfect.
I remember when I lost my job years ago.I thought my life was over....I thought there was nothing left for me.Everyone deserted me....no one gave a crap.
You see,the world is a cruel place when you don't have money.Most women would've walked away.But my wife stood by my side.
She took care of me and the children. For months,she used her money to feed us and take care of the rent.
It wasn't easy.....Things were bad.
No.
Things were f**ked up.
But my wife never left me....she never disrespected me.She never cheated on me.
For three years,no one knew what was going on.
She is indeed a remarkable woman.
Now, I have a great Job.
That's why cheating on her is so terrible.
The truth is,I never planned on being one of those husbands who sneak around.It just kinda happened.
Now,I know that's no excuse.But please bear with me.First time I did it,I swore it would be the last.But it had been so easy .......so exciting.For the first time in Five years, I felt ALIVE.
Of course I lied to myself that it wouldn't happen again.But who was I kidding? I was already hooked.
And thus began my infidelity.
The other women....or girls just seemed so......"fresh"....so...."new".
It was like being with a woman for the first time.All of a sudden, there were women everywhere.It was as if a girl had covered my eyes all this time.Now, I could see.
I had a different woman like every other night.They just kept coming at me.Ofcourse,the fact that I had a new job and fat salary helped.
I was on a roll.
My wife suddenly became old....flabby and boring.
I did my best to make her happy......true story,I did.
But it was useless.I'd heard stories of Cheating husbands whom don't have sex with their wives for months.....years even.I never thought I'd be one of such men.But here I am shagging my life away.
Before my "sex-frenzy" I was a faithful and trustworthy husband.
I don't think cheating husbands are born,I think they're made.
True story.
First time I ever cheated on my wife was with a neighbor's house help.
Please don't judge me.
I didn't do it because she was beautiful.
Justina was Butt-Ugly.
She was like something you used to scare naughty children whenever they were bad.
But there I was, having sex with a house help and loving it.
I felt ashamed of myself, but I couldn't stop.
Eventually, Justina got pregnant.
I was scared out of my mind.I mean,what would my family think of me?
We managed to get rid of the baby.Which wasn't easy. Justina was in love and wanted me to leave my wife.
With a lot of pleading,she agreed to have the abortion.
I had to pay her off to be quiet.
That was a year ago.
You would think that would stop me,but no.
I couldn't stop.
Now I sleep with anything from house-helps to.....ANYTHING.
Why do I do this?
I can't really say.
All I know is that I get a certain type of satisfaction from these women that I don't get from my wife.
Sex with my wife feels like "work"....an obligation I have to carry out, like going to work on a Monday.I don't enjoy it, I just do it.
I know you must think me a monster,but I love my wife.I could never leave her and the children.
But I know I have to stop.But I can't....I feel lost.
Especially now that I just found out I have a veneral disease....and especially since I had sex with my wife last night.
I feel so ashamed.
Please, what do I do?
Is this normal?
Since I cheat on my wife, I know all men cheat one way or another.
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This man, has Leviathan marine spirit! But such is life, the issue of humans (both genders) cheating on each other is an age old one, what I find mind boggling is why they don't use protection. Its totally irresponsible and disgusting.
ReplyDeleteWhy am I so mad with this post? Typical men when they are broke they become humble nd loving doves, when they begin to see little change they start sleeping with evrytn under skirt nd realize their wife is fat ugly nd boring, finding fault in all she does mtcheeeeeewwwww.
DeleteSo now his wife is boring? Sleeping with her now is work? His 'made' now and sees his wife as old school abii? And now he has infected her with God knows what.
DeleteI just hope this isn't a true story shaa cos sorry to say but "the thunder that will fire you is gyming"
Let me just stop here, wouldn't like to go further.
kindly visit
pamscrib.blogspot.com
See tongue lashing.
DeleteFirst, not all men are cheats, second, men don't cheat because they hate their wives or because they have money in their pockets. It is only the fear of God that will stop a virile and strong in bed man from cheating.
DeleteI think the writer asked a simple question,Do ALL men cheat? My candid answer is NO NO NO! Eggs are eggs only few are rotten!
Deletei agree wit u iyke.....d few r more than rotten
DeleteTrue talk iyke. We still have some men out there who have the fear of God in them and will never cheat.
DeleteThis is the prob with broke guys...when they finally hit gold, they start enjoying what poverty made them miss. Mtchew
ReplyDeleteBtw congrats Opu_vy on the success of yesterday's campaign
Nma's Blog
Speaking from a woman's point of view it as if it is because they are broke or something, nah, a man who cheats cheats whether he is rich or poor, their are ladies for every class.
DeleteThis is bad! After cheating on her despite wht she did for u, u had to share with her a disease she knws nothing about. This is wickedness on all levels. He needs to be hanged by his balls.
DeleteIt's comes with a price. You sound young. Well to be with a just one vjay vjay all your life could be boring. Now the thing is that don't go out tasting because it may never end until u have a serious STD, give girl belle or lose your marriage. Go treat urself and be good.
ReplyDeleteSound advice
DeleteBoring? i don't understand! what happens to exploring other position etc?
DeleteAbeg tell am Iyke!
DeleteOne vj should be sufficient. Some men go the alternative route by using one of these. Click on my ID to see. Be 18+. The real life one would prevent all kinds of STD's guaranteed.
DeleteMajority of African men mentality
ReplyDeleteWrong again. It has nothing to do with race and statistically, women cheat more than men with over 27% variation world over and 13.5% variation in Africa, with 23% variation in Nigeria.....so chill first before judging.
DeleteYeah no race,tribe or nation, but in the individual!
DeleteYou are cursed my dear man! Go back to your village and beg that your uncle you refused to give money before he dies. Onye Iberibe!
ReplyDeletehahahaahahaha. Lolz. Sunshine di mean. Lol.
DeleteThis Sunshine de vex I swear down.
DeleteOga u are not normal at all. Instead of cheating on ur wife, y didnt u buy hot clothes for her? Go on vacation without d children? spice up ur relationship! I pity d women their husband cheat and come and give them disease and also d men their wives cheat as well. Its so unfortunate.
ReplyDeleteYou are very right, giving your life to Christ is a must if you intend to overcome this pitfall.
DeleteAfter the awareness of STDs? You still don't use condoms and protection. May God give your wwiife the heart to forgive you. Evil man.
ReplyDeleteAnd wives, stop looking plain and drab. Keep the flame burning by all means. I'm not married though. But I guess that is number one reason randy men give as an excuse to cheat.
There is no excuse for cheating biko. Some of them which includes the women are just caused.
DeleteThat and many others, but every reason seems flimsy when you dissect it. Poor world
Delete@Pam, I agree with you ,no excuse for a man to cheat on his wife!
DeleteThank u dede
DeleteWow congrats Opus/Ivy!!
ReplyDeleteHmm, cheating men! It's only when they are down that they see the beauty of the wife? The character up there and all men in his shoes need psychological help.
Spiritual help is all that is needed. God breaks addictions.
DeleteHehehe! And now comments will be vetted before approving. All those monitoring spirits.......... lol
ReplyDeleteThat's y I can never date a broke ass guy let alone marry him, bc when he becomes rich, see gobe.
ReplyDeleteYou are wrong dear, broke or not, a cheating man will cheat. Examples of men who have never tasted hardship but are serial skirt chasers abound, just ask God to give you a man who will love and respect you forever, who will only have eyes for you and who will fear Him.
DeleteChi is that your final answer?
DeleteChi talk o. Iyke is on your matter .
DeleteHahahahah.
DeleteBiko free her. She has talketh her mind. Lol
DeleteMost men cheat. Even if they love their wives they can never be satisfied.
ReplyDeleteckjacob.blogspot.com
I find it hard to reconcile cheating n love but I think most men cheat for a particular reason which women should find out
DeleteHenry well done, when I saw the topic, I smiled because I know how sensitive this issue is. Those of us who have active social circles and sit on table of men refrain from judging cheating men or women, because we know. I started writing a book on that issue, but laziness no gree me. If you sit and listen, open your eyes and ears, you will see that this issue is so deep and if well harnessed is a best seller. Opus, pray for God to give me some of your strength, make I fit finish this two year old book among others that are half done on my computer.
DeleteI don't think there's a reason for cheating. Most times, it just happens.
DeleteCici, nothing just happens my dear
DeleteI concur with Henry. Men always have a reason to cheat no matter how flimsy it is.
DeleteWhen you have a strong relationship with the only true God coupled with self discipline, you will not cheat on ur spouse
ReplyDeleteExactly.
DeleteGBAM...
DeleteSelf discipline doesn't do it, just the love and fear of God, I can tell you that.
DeleteI choose self discipline because some ppl that does not know God can control themselves!
DeleteIyke, self discipline doesn't do it bro. When you jam, all them discipline turns to void. That doesn't mean self discipline isn't required, but fear of God cements it.
DeleteI like you nne. lol
ReplyDeleteCongrats opus for yesterday's success.
ReplyDeleteHahaha.
ReplyDeleteKween la fierce!
No time.
My pain is the infection, you don't have an excuse for cheating. @least have the head n heart to use protection naaa.
ReplyDeleteThis is what I've noticed in most cheating married men, broke n rich alike; most of them see their wives as wahala boards. What this means is, they expect problem(s) whenever they see or spend time with their wives. If it's not what's not available at home, it's what's to be done soon or what he's not doing right or wrong. Wives I think should take a cue from these runs girls sometimes n rationalize why most men like them because in there lies the secrets of keeping your man to yourself. I think these "runs" girls most times( if not all the time), put fun/pleasure before their demands so, I think if a woman has a "good man" that she puts pleasure most times before responsibilities/duties, her man would most likely be hers alone. Although, if you have/married a bad man, I don't have advise for you but please women try not to nag your men cus that's sure road to infidelity.
ReplyDeleteOkay let me get this straight. Are saying that when a man cheats it's because the wife nags?? I believe it's DISCIPLINE yes, it takes discipline to remain faithful... It's never a woman that pushes the hubby to cheat, the man just lacks discipline...
DeleteOpusivy congrats on d out come of yesterday's awareness we can all see its a success .
ReplyDeleteCan't comment with my phone had to borrow that of my sis wat this blog does to me.
Signing out jennyIF.
Good job guys. Meanwhile what happened to that story about the guy that sacrificed his baby for wealth?
ReplyDeleteEhen! The one whose wife get ritualistic liver pass. That story is needed back.
DeleteHuh?
ReplyDeleteI've missed a story.
Pleaseeeeee refresh my memory.
Which? Check well, I doubt. You Hawty miss some story? Mbanu! It isn't possible.
DeleteLol.
DeleteYes o, Chuks.
The one u & 9:16 know about.
Hawt Mrs, it's about that story the man got money through evil means and the evil woman came to take his son's lifr after 7 years and said she will continue to do so every 7years. He was scared to tell his wife but was shocked she accepted Dat her son should die so far the money will keep flowing.
DeleteI think the story finished there.
Yeahhhh.
DeleteI remember.
Bless you, Pam.
Uw hun.
Delete@ Kween,Those broken ashes are always better lovers and loyal!If you like date Bill Gate, if he has a cheating in his blood, he will cheat on you!
ReplyDeleteMen and women cheat solely because they are discontent with what they have. They no longer find joy and satisfaction in that which used to give them same. Hence, the cheating. It's better to pray for the strong will against this evil cos it has destroyed many homes and will continue to haunt many people for the rest of their lives.
ReplyDeleteIt's a decision.. you decide to cheat or you decide not to cheat. Discipline is key. It never happens by mistake. NEVER.
ReplyDeleteThank you
DeleteDiscipline and fear of God.
DeleteSpot on, Aitasweet.
DeleteCos even when temptation arises, discipline & the fear of God won't make you stray.
Oh yeah, temptation is bound to occur...no sex is immune.
All men cheat. Personally, I pity any girl dt puts all her eggs in one basket. Men cheat... dts d way it is. n wht dey do not realise is dt it makes dem stagnant. dey wonder why dey r not progressing, not realising that they are hurting one gud girl dt is busy praying that God blesses dem. d blessings turn to curses becos dey do not deserv d girl.
ReplyDeletethings keep going wrong for them, and dey hv no idea why. I am talking from experience, I had a grt girl, she was evrytin i wntd and i was planning to marry her when i got some money. But there were others. i didnt let her knw, i made her my world and she tot the sun rises and sets wit me. twas bliss..... until she knew. till today, i duno how she knew, maybe one of those witches calledheror somtin but she knew. ofcourse i denied with my life.. but she knew and she left me. still pleading wit her, bcos my life aint the same without her. took that for granted. maybe its a curse but yes we cheat. n we all knw it. unfortunately we dnt realise until its late. the younger ones need to learn. its not worth it. now i am 36 and still pleading... when she marris anoda man, maybe then i can move on.
nice one bro
good for u. mtchew. u placed ur ego above ur "bliss". my husband cheated on me while we were dating. Wht saved him was dt when i asked him he strtd shedding "crocodile" tears. i loved him so much, and because he was truthful i forgave him. now we r married n hv 3kids, i am satisfied. he knws dt if i as much as think of suspecting that he is cheating, i wld bounce. i hv my kids to live for. i no fit die ontop man matter.
Deletegood for u. nxt tym, say d truth and coerce some tears out.
Lol@ crocodile tears. I think the main issue which has not been addressed is "why do Good men cheat". All men don't cheat, although all men can cheat n it's same for women. I will continue to say that women should focus on why good men cheat so they can avoid that horrible experience
DeleteHenry please enlighten me. I really need to know. please
DeleteHenry is right (as in when good men cheat), but when it is as Emma said, I disagree...not all men cheat.
DeleteSo "good" men cheat.
DeleteInteresting.
Please define "good men" thanks...
DeleteI really don't believe people are "good or bad" cus all opinions of both are based on what they've done n that may not be a total assessment of the person. That said, a good man in this case is someone that has come to "himself" n has accepted his woman for who she is; that man will need to be pushed hard to the wall to drop all he has learnt n experienced to cheat on his wife( sorry I don't think gfs counts) and most times I see the women taking their men for granted n this I think is main reason that will make men cheat on their wives. The talk plenty Abeg, later jor
DeleteWell this is my own thought on the matter,humans are insatiable both men and women alike,but sometimes girls make it easy for a married man to cheat and here's my reason :
ReplyDeleteAs a young man in this present age a young lady has to give you the go ahead before you can make a move to touch her,and now in the case of a married man,these young girls around already know they're married and yet they don't mind,they're still interested where as when the case is reversed,some guys will want to take caution while others too won't care and all in the quest to get paid. Cos sexually this married man may not be as good but because she gets paid she doesn't mind,but in the case of a guy with a married woman he has to be really good for the lady to want to keep him and he still gets paid . Well here's my point if girls these days have the fear of God in them they will stay away from married men let's see who they'll now go to cheat with
James 4:7 says, resist the devil and he will flee from you... The men should learn to resist and attach self-control and discipline biko.
DeleteYes o. The devil enters because we permit him.
DeletePam the bible also says this wahala is based on our own desires n we should blame ourselves n not the devil. 1 john 2:16-17. Na our long throat of things we consider pleasurable
DeleteWhat amazes me is the way a cheating spouse professes so much love for his/her partner. How remotely possible is it for one to feel so much love another and still find it normal cheat. Something most definitely is lacking in that union, and love is one of them. It only takes a disciplined person who has chosen the happiness of his partner to be way and above his to be faithful. And I believe such men exist.
ReplyDeleteI wonder oo. Serving 2 masters at a time.
DeleteNot all men cheat. Remember you always say "life is a choice"
ReplyDeleteExactly.
Delete@Iyke, true words
ReplyDeletePamela, you just carry this matter for head. Lol
ReplyDeletelol! E no reach to carry?
Delete@jasmine, I no carry am for head. I'm just stating a fact. Lol
DeleteMr and Mrs Opus, biko where did the 'mr and mrs' post I saw now disappear to???
ReplyDeleteI saw it too nd commented then the post disappeared.
DeleteNot all men cheat. Though I can't speak for all men, but my husband is a proof that not all men cheat.
ReplyDeleteAwww.
DeleteYou're so lucky.
He's a rare breed.
Lucky you dear
DeleteCongrats, don't change whatever you are feeding him, it is working for you guys.
DeleteMy dear you ain't lucky but you are doing the right things in his eyes n definitely not taking him for granted. May God continue to bless your home
DeleteFirstly. .why do men cheat?
ReplyDeleteAnswer. ..because they can.
I have once heard a group of men talk about how magnificent they are...and the fact that women should be honoured to have them ...so if they keep one woman in the house...and give her all she needs...then she should stay clear of their manly bizness which ofcos cheating amongst others...as long as they come back home. Plus if she causes a ruckus and leaves...some other woman just takes her place.
So in other words...they put the fear factor in us. Tell us its a lose situation ...so we might as well sit back and be quiet.
Secondly... I don't give a thumbs up to statements men make by saying...one woman becomes boring..too much work..and yadiyadiya bulshits statements...its just a free reign for them to cheat.
I have a thought...If you think the sex part of tour marriage has gone stale...how bout you spice it up. Yes..spice it up. If you claim to love your wife..dude you wouldn't be sagging someone else and feeling alife. A man who says that has no love for his wife
.no respect and absolutely no value. Because if a woman was to do it to him...its all hell break loose..because it's a supposed abomination. ..and if a man cheats...He gets high fives from his guys...they give him the whoas and Aahes and you are the man for hitting it two ways sideways without breaking a sweat...and you go it's a man's world. I feel that mentality is deluded...and only weak unresponsible men with no regard for their woman or his family op for that. So next time you get a boner because little miss sunshine sashays pass you wriggling her constricted butt and pushup breast at your face...and little Johnson be telling you to hit that like there ain't no tomorrow. ..how about..you call your wife..tell her you be home early
..get the kids of to bed early..because give or take..If she hasn't been feeling sexy towards you for awhile..its because you haven't made her feel sexy..you probably just go to work..come back and eat..watch spots...and never really looked at her and went..
Damn babe...If only you knew how you make my heart flutter when I stare at you.
When you walk by I feel as tho every other thing stands still.
When I kiss you lips I feel am floating on seven seas..
When I caress your skin...I just Want to sink my self in...
Am watch you push your head back and close your eyes..
Bit your lip and make me groan all night...
Feel you quake baby..I can do it all right...
Watch you squirm...baby I can't hold back no more...
Ecetera Ecetera Ecetera. ..
Cont..
ReplyDeleteTrust me that wld work like magic.
She will feel all wanted and sexy and that would get her to get her game on...
Am dude ...you will be the one thinking...girl you are on fire...proceed...take a shower together...maybe you both have become stereotyped.
Do it in the shower...on a table...have her seduce you...do the lapdance..take her while she is making food..but ya better make sure the kids aren't home..let her feel sexy..and wanted...and trust me...that whole having sex with my wife is work flies out of the window.
Get back to that time in your life you thought she was irresistible. ..when you can't get enough of that.
Yes...I can believe years of being together. .responsibilities and kids sort of turned you both off...but you can always get back into the game.
The same way you feel like being alife...thesame way your wife would want to come alife too and feels her hubby don't quite find her as attractive sexually as before..and she missed that.
So...get in there bruv and turn that shit up...she would be pouring like the taps being broken down there.
Get her new cloths. Help her with the kids...They tire her some too. Take her out...and dude just love her up some. She needs that attention and love you give those woman...when you see you wife as a everything you wouldn't dare...no matter the pressure..go after other woman...your love and respect for her would curb that lust.
Again...anyman that does that isn't much of a man...
It's a sorry excuse.
Yes...I believe everyman has the tendency to cheat...but are all men cheats...well it depends.
One on their biological makeup to want to stick it anywhere...as long as it's not one..
Secondly...its because of the excitement and thrilled it gives of hiding and taking...stolen water is sweet they say.
Thirdly...its a decision. A purposeful...outright decision on their part.
Men aren't born that way..they are made..that I agree with you...so all things being equal...all men are cheats when they decide to...and it's just a few who are principled enough to know that they can but they wound because there is something called...trust. .love and honesty and faithfulness and the owe it to their partner no matter what..and sacrifices plays a major road too.
The society is way messed up and also contributed to the moral decadence of the so called society that has put men as Lords and gives them a free reign on how they act and no one questions how they sow their royal oats..or how many times or with who..but frowns at the slightest when it comes to the opposite sex.
My point....There is every reason for men to curb that men in them that wants to tap out on every woman just because they can.
Like I said...I'd your sex life is stale at home...effing spice it up.
All men don't have to be cheats...its a decision.
I do believe that there are a few one or two out there that aren't cheats...in everything they are in totality..but that's rare..no offence .
Cont. 3.
ReplyDelete...............A man says the Johnson has a mind of its own...yes we agree..they work as soon as they see...they pop up to salute..but it's the man...The man...who uses his hand..takes Johnson out of the pants..weda he Shields him up or leave him exposed...and then sticks it in ...in a hole other than his wife's or gf's...all this he does in his right senses..fully aware of the consequences. .its his decision to go all the way.
And that's just wrong. .and unpardonable.
Kick his ass to a curb. Once he did it once..and then twice..and then a lot of times..He will keep going..why..becuase he knows he can. And men like that have no conscience or feel remorse or anything...unless they get caught. ..get diseases. ..or get someone pregnant and it blows up on his face...
And in this case..He is feeling that way because that's one of the case...it doesn't mean he regrets...If he had a clean slate he will do that. Forget the whole..He got got now because he got a job and notes to flip...I'd he loved his wife...He would have had more respect especially because she stuck with him...through it all.
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Deuces! !!
*phew* like I was reading a PhD thesis.
DeleteNo be small.
DeleteShe can type shaa. Thanks for this though
DeleteShe sure can, me likey
DeleteLol@Kween, this one pass PhD thesis, na epistle be that. Written to the Cheaterliarcans!
DeleteChuks you too funny oo
DeleteHmm.. . serial cheat, now u have infected the poor woman.
ReplyDeleteBecause he got a good job.
ReplyDeletePls repent,u can do without cheating on ur wife. Make her look attractive,get close to her,gist with her,behave urself and STOP this nonsense pls. It doesn't pay.
I forgot to add,since u hv infected ur wife,make una go hospital.
ReplyDeleteBecause he got a good job.
ReplyDeletePls repent,u can do without cheating on ur wife. Make her look attractive,get close to her,gist with her,behave urself and STOP this nonsense pls. It doesn't pay.