SMALL PE#!S??...REALLY??

Hi guys!me again!I love these little chats we have now and then.....they're  so nice.anyway due to technical issues,my blog has moved to a new platform(blogger).The New address is www.opustjkwrites@blogspot.com.

Anyway, thanks for the emails pings and Facebook messages I honestly had no idea so many people read my stuff.

Well decided to respond to a couple of emails I received in the past week.Now may just add;I AM NOT A RELATIONSHIP EXPERT .I merely just tell it as I see it.All I can offer is MY opinion.Enough said.
That being said,lets jump into our first email.it's actually an interesting story.


Hi Opus, love your blog(wish you'd post more often).Well,I have an interesting story
My name is Cynthia.I'm a  29 year old  makeup artist in Port Harcourt

.Business is very good,thank you very much.
Well, my story actually began about 3 years ago.At the time,I was seeing this guy named Alex.
Alex was a tall, handsome banker.He fell for me from day one.
We went out a couple of Times.

It was nice.I liked him a lot.It was fun being with him.
There was literally never a dull moment with him.The relationship was going well until...I spent a night at his house.

Now before you start judging me,lemme just go on record to say I love sex.and I mean I looooove sex.And when I start liking a guy,sex is one way I show it.That's just how it is.

Well,I spent the night at his place.There was a lot of touching and kissing.Everything was going well and the prospect of mind-blowing sex seemed imminent.

That was before I reached into his boxers.

Let me just go on record(again) and say,it took me awhile to......"find him"
When I eventually..... "found him", I  wasn't sure what I was holding.
"where's the rest of it?" I remember thinking to myself.

I was in such shock that I got off the bed to turn on the lights.What I saw stunned me.

His pe&#$ wasn't small, it was......BARELY THERE!
It looked like the thumb of an 9 year old............,.. a malnourished 9 year old (I'm not joking)

Well,longstory short, we didn't have sex.I told him I wasn't feeling very well.(I mean what else was I suppose to say?I can't work with a small penis.NO WAY!!!)so we just cuddled and slept

The next morning I left his house.I never took his calls again.I deleted him from bbm and blocked his number on Truecaller.(please don't look at me like that)I just couldn't face him.
I knew he really liked me but I couldn't lie to myself.IT JUST WOULDNT WORK!!
I know I seem like a monster but I had to be honest with myself.

That was 3 Years ago,I never saw or heard from Alex again.

Amaka and I have been friends for over a year now.She's a Nice girl.She's like the sister I never had.
She recently got engaged to some guy she's really crazy about(HOW WAS I SUPPOSED TO KNOW IT WAS THE SAME ALEX????)
They met in the UK,during her masters.

Now,she's not a fan of premarital sex.Not that she's a virgin or anything but she'd made a personal decision years ago to abstain from sex until  marriage.
Like me,Amaka loves sex and constantly tells me how she likes BIG guys.

When I found out it was the same Alex she was engaged to(she showed me a picture).
,I froze!!

What am I supposed to do??should I tell her??she doesn't know about the history between me and her Husband to-be!

What should I do?she just asked me to be on the bridal train.This Port Harcourt is too small GODFORBID!!!
So what should I do?


 Reply.like I said before,I'm  no expert but I think I should throw this one out there.
What do you guys think?

Life's a choice my friend
So choose wisely
Enough said


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Spammers on the other hand, would be shot, run over with my car, thrown off a cliff,
hung by their toe nails, and made to watch me do the MAKARINA....... in slow motion.
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